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1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someone's eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone's eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
I’ve kind of had practice telling someone how I feel so I am not as shy about it as I first was. Yes it is super nerve-racking but in the end you feel a kind of relief for finally getting it off your chest.
As I’m really insecure I definitely feel that looking into someone’s eyes when they are letting me how they feel would be more difficult. I would be so scared as to what they would say, what my reaction would be and how it would affect our future.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
The last time I was really angry was at my ex-boyfriend who I realised lied to me constantly throughout a relationship. What made me angrier was the fact that he also lied to my parents and my family. I let him into my life, my parents welcomed him into our home, my family went out of their way to meet him and make him feel comfortable and almost everything he said was a lie. Any thoughts I have about him now are full of hatred. I think about things he did throughout our relationship that also made me angry: going through my phone, photos and messages because he didn’t trust me, feeling jealous and questioning me about guys (and girls!), expecting me to do certain things because he wanted to, laughing AT me and not in a loving way. I definitely still feel the same way and I hope I never see him again.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
I’d call my mother and hope to God that she puts me on speaker for the rest of my family to hear. I would give her messages to pass onto my friends but more importantly my family. I would tell everyone I love them but mostly just want Mum and Dad to know.
4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
No I wouldn’t tell anyone, or if I did I would tell my parents. But only to justify my reasons for doing what I do with my last remaining days. I would be so afraid as I’m scared of death. I would go for a quick holiday to America as I have always wanted to, show my mother the songs and everything I have written in secret and be completely fearless and have a month full of firsts!
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
Love. Love. Love. Love. The people you love are ones you already trust. Love comes naturally so to be without it would be a sad and depressing world.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dog’s life? Why or Why not?
Definitely save the dog. That would be a terrible thing to regret doing and if you can live with yourself after letting a dog or anything drown then I feel sorry for you.
7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
Love the most I think. Because if you love them, you can generally forgive them in time.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
I would be completely shocked as I can never see that happening and probably a little scared at first! But I have nothing against those who like the same gender. I would feel terrible because I don’t feel the same way for her but she would still definitely be my best friend.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
I wish I could say I would, but I probably wouldn’t. I feel so selfish but a year is a long time with a lot of memories. And the last person who I know who died was my cousin who was very sick. I wouldn’t want them to have another hour or sickness or pain.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Yes I think so! There are parts of me I don’t like but knowing my personality and deep down I will always be there to listen to a friend and give them as much advice as I know how to give.
11. Does love = sex?
I really don’t know what my opinion is to this question. But I know love changes sex.
12. Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
As selfish as it sounds, I wouldn’t just offer to leave the company straight out because I still have to make a living. I’d offer to cut back some of my hours so that they could still have some sort of income, even if it wasn’t as much and help them find a fulltime job.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
A couple of months ago. It wasn’t face to face but it was a very relieving and quite joyful moment for me. It didn’t end up working out in my favour and yes it was quite difficult but the subject came up and I couldn’t lie.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
Don’t love them back because I always feel terrible about that.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My loved ones. I am so afraid of death and of losing the people I know.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
Yesterday and either my brother, Mum or cat
17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
I would change believing what a guy told me because he only wanted one thing.
18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
Absolutely. I have never thought of CPR as anything but saving someone and I’ve always thought it to be a stranger. A person is a person regardless of their status or living situation.
19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
Selfishly I would let the baby go. I am too afraid of my loved ones dying.
20. Are you old fashioned?
In some ways, yes. In others, definitely not.
21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
I can’t remember the last time but I always try to be nice and not expect anything in return for it.
22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love. Just like the saying, “Tis better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.” I never want to go without feeling true love no matter what the outcome.
23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
Happiness. If you are happy and have positivity you can get through anything.
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